April marks Sexual Assault Awareness Month, a time dedicated to increasing awareness about interpersonal violence. Recently, the MeToo Movement among other social movements have sparked discussions about interpersonal violence and consent in popular media. Survivors are telling their stories and empowering others to do so as well. This movement marks a shift in our society and culture as light is shed on sexual assault and its survivors.
Living in a post MeToo era, consent is something that needs to be addressed. Consent is freely and enthusiastically saying yes, required for any sexual activity and not assumed. Consent is specific to one sexual activity and must be obtained before engaging in other activities. It is also reversible — people can change their minds. This can be complicated when substance use is involved.
Pearl Brown | Vandal Health Peer Educator
It is important to note that consent cannot be given while under the influence of alcohol or other drugs. An intoxicated person is in a physically and mentally impaired state that compromises decision-making, which makes giving and receiving consent problematic. Alcohol affects the ability to clearly communicate boundaries and desires; people under the influence may be more willing to disregard messages that indicate someone is uncomfortable or does not want to do something. Additionally, alcohol can increase aggressiveness, which can be disastrous when it comes to sexual activity.
It is essential to practice sexually responsible behaviors if you choose to engage in sexual activities. Always ask for and receive enthusiastic and ongoing consent before, during and every time you engage in sexual activity with your partner(s). We all have a responsibility to interact with others safely and consensually.
If you or someone you know feels their consent has been violated, there are confidential resources on campus here to support you. The Counseling and Testing Center offers free and confidential counseling services to students. The CTC is located on the third floor of Mary E. Forney Hall and can be reached at (208) 885-6716. Alternatives to Violence on the Palouse is located in the Blake House next to the CTC and is open 1 p.m. to 5 p.m. Monday, Wednesday, Friday and by appointment. You’re also able to submit a Title IX report at uidaho.edu/vandalcare. The report would launch a university investigation.
If you are interested in educational opportunities, Vandal Health Education offers several workshops that focus on sexual health and alcohol education. These events are great opportunities to learn and spread information about the importance of these topics. Workshops can be requested for classes or living groups online at uidaho.edu/vandalhealth. Presentations include but are not limited to: Sex in the Dark, Sex Scenes: Boundaries, Consent, and Safer Sex, Healthy Relationships, Alcohol 101 and How to Help a Friend. The Violence Prevention Programs and Women’s Center also offer several programs dedicated to raising awareness about sexual assault and other forms of violence.
This April, speak up about consent, be an advocate and contribute to the impactful conversation around interpersonal violence.
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