The conversation series “Got Sex?” that took place Thursday evening spoke of the signs and physical responses of partners who are truly aroused in a sexual experience, as well as those who are not.
“We want to make it clear that these ‘Got Sex?’ events are in no ways lectures or seminars,” said Lysa Salsbury, the programs coordinator at the UI Women’s Center. “They are discussions where anyone and everyone can voice their opinions.”
“Got Sex?” talks occur every month with a new topic each time. The discussions are centered on sexual and reproductive health.
The talks began as a result of Trojan Condoms ranking UI last out of 141 universities nationwide due to the lack of sexual health services in 2010. The series began last year.
“When students enter college, most are relatively uninformed about sex,” Salsbury said. “We want students to educate each other through these events.”
Before the discussion commences, each participant must promise to adhere to ground rules set by the group. Rules include maintaining a safe environment by keeping stories in the room and refraining from passing judgment.
Past topics include anxiety about vaginas, circumcision and positive sexual experiences with partners. Each session begins with a guest speaker who addresses the group in an informal fashion and introduces the topic of conversation. Guest speakers include health care professionals, biologists and community members.
“These talks are not just for students. Staff, faculty and community members typically join us to discuss their experiences. We’ve once had a group talk with someone as young as 17 as well as with someone as old as 70,” Salsbury said.
Each session aims to demonstrate an understanding and appreciation of the diversity of sexual health “norms” while developing the personal security, courage and skills needed to challenge social taboos about sexuality-related issues.
The series will resume in September and is held in the Memorial Gym room 109.
“The location is cozy, comfortable and allows for great discussion,” Salsbury said. “Everyone is welcome. Differing opinions and views only enrich the program.
“Got Sex?” forum organizers include the UI Women’s Center, ASUI Heath & Wellness Programs, UI VOX-Voices for Planned Parenthood, Planned Parenthood Votes Northwest, Dr. Erin Chapman and Alternatives to Violence of the Palouse.
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